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Dearest Pixyteri by Chiikarato Dearest Pixyteri by Chiikarato
Since the recipient of this note, :iconpixyteriyaki:, hid this and didn't even have the decency to reply to one of the few people who are giving her constructive criticism without descending into a personal attack full of swearing and general nastynes, i decided to make it more public rather than have it hidden in my scrapbook and on /cgl/.

Thanks to everyone, both anon and via dA, who have said many nice comments about what i said :)

And to :iconpixyteriyaki:; this is not meant as a personal hate-filled attack; you have done nothing to me personally, I have no vendetta against you.
However I am sick of seeing both your face on /cgl/ everyday and the endless attacks on you that aren't justified.

However stop playing the victim as it takes 2 variants to fuel a fire. /cgl/ is just the tinder and you are the spark that fuel the fire.
You need to stop treating the people who ARE being nice to you like the haters and learn to listen to what people are saying; surely when so many people are telling you the same thing over and over (you don't suit that fashion, you are a bbw, you need to grow up a little), even the ones being nice to you, you should realise that maybe they have a point and the problem therein lies with you not them.

<3
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animeluver5550 Featured By Owner Oct 5, 2014  Hobbyist General Artist
I would like to say that lolita isn't age specific. There is no such thing as too young or too old for a certain type of lolita, or lolita in general. It's literally just clothing. It's like telling somebody, "Oh, you're 30 now. You can't wear tanktops anymore." See how ridiculous that sounds? Yeah. Clothing doesn't define the person. It's simply a way of expressing yourself.
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Kaptra Featured By Owner Jul 17, 2014
The thing about criticism is that it's just that - nobody HAS to conform to it. This just seems like a cry for attention, which isn't surprising because most people on /cgl/ are attention whoring sponges. If someone asks you to stop criticizing them, Maybe you know, you should? Seeing this is a few years later I would hope you've learned to grow up, when nobody wants your two cents, especially not the person you're criticizing. It's almost as if you yourself were playing the victim (which is hilarious because if I remember correctly PT was getting a shit ton of death threats and whatnot and probably had more important things to worry about.) The mob mentality on /cgl/ is appalling, and honestly I don't blame PT for reacting the way she did.
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Pardious Featured By Owner Jul 23, 2011  Hobbyist Artist
chiikarato, I respect the fact that you took the time to articulate your thoughts and expressed your concern to Sara. By all means, I'm not defending her. I'm not friends with her. I never spoke with her. I DO AGREE she is delusional about her weight, and Sara should stop wearing clothes a size smaller than it already is. She looks a bit too old to be dressing like a EGL. But, I think it's very tawdry and unnecessary you're exploiting her like this. It's not your obligation to go on the internet and publicly humiliate her. Just PM her this message and don't cause a scene about it. Don't drag the world into it.

Keep in mind, Sara doesn't have to reply to you if she doesn't want to. That's very rude, forcing people to talk. Just leave her alone. I'm sure you wouldn't like it if people were heckling and judging you like a car. This is DeviantArt, not DeviantVendetta. (Yes, I'm seeing denial in your paragraphs.)

I can understand your feelings. There's certain people that I think are annoying and overrated, but I just keep my mouth shut because I have better things to do with my time. It's none of my business, so I mind my own. If you want someone to go away, then stop talking about them.

I'm not trying to hurt you, I'm just being honest. I do commend your bravery to express your opinions. At any rate, she's been fed the same criticism in the same can before and she's not stopping, so why bother?
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XemnasDragon Featured By Owner Jul 17, 2011  Student Artist
I think you are my hero.
She really does need to gain some sort of mental medical help and stop thriving on the dream that one day she will be an "Idol for Japan".
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kataimiko Featured By Owner Apr 27, 2011
I tried to also give her constructive criticism at first...then she went off and pulled that now infamous move of: "lol, I just donated $5 to Japan Tsunami relief. I cannot donate more, because I am too busy saving money to to and visit glorious Nippon!" And she didn't even donate that money until *after* someone called her out on it.

she also then spends huge chunks of money on crappy eBay costumes for her "gravure" photos. But she can't afford to donate more than $5 to Japan. Her priorities are fucking messed up and she needs to be smacked upside the head with a reality yardstick. She claims to "love Japan" but then she pulls bullshit moves like this. The only things she knows about her "glorious Nippon" are random pop-culture related factoids, and nothing of substance or merit.

We need to haul her fat ass over to the Sendai coast, give her a bucket and a shovel and tell her to help clean up the mess. I think this is the only way of getting it into her thick fat head, just how dire of a situation it is over there, and how Japan is not just some sparkly kawaii uguu wonderland.
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kataimiko Featured By Owner Apr 27, 2011
oh, and she has deleted her journal entry about the Japan disaster, but I have screenshots, as well as other people.
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kataimiko Featured By Owner Apr 27, 2011
btw, I am pretty sure she is 26 going on 27.
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Robotaka Featured By Owner May 12, 2011
If she's ever going to go to Japan to become a Gravure model (lol, yeah right), she needs to hurry up because at her age she's already considered old.
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WeWillFixPixyTeri Featured By Owner Mar 16, 2011   Digital Artist
PT's a bitch. End of story.
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Robotaka Featured By Owner May 12, 2011
Amen to that.
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skippersolo Featured By Owner Feb 23, 2011
I like the fact that you're trying to help her. But some of the things you said here were a bit rude to be honest, such as telling her to grow up, and saying she needs to get it through her "thick skull".

Yes, she is stubborn. But if something like this was aimed at me, I'd find it insulting too If you really want somebody to actually listen to you, then you should say it in the kindest possible way. I'd try again.
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flags-and-castles Featured By Owner Jan 5, 2011
im really not a member of the deviant community but i am active in cosplay communities and on /cgl/ im really glad you wrote this. i think it sums up what the lovely, yet disalusioned (sp?), sarah needs to hear.
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Sokai-Sama Featured By Owner Oct 30, 2010  Hobbyist Traditional Artist
'"...knock out your teeth and act like a moron"'

LoL That bit honestly made me chuckle. Okay, more than chuckle, but mainly because of how you phrased it. :p That, and my husband (who's also English) has to deal with such stereotypes and generalizations pretty much on a daily basis whenever he comes to the states and people instantly hear his accent.

Meh. LoL

Anyway, honestly never heard of this chick before until now, sadly, and yet creepily enough, she looks about 98% identical to my brother's on/off nightmare g/f. -_- And are both the same age, to boot, and evidently not a fan of constructive criticism within the slightest. =/

Does this Pixyteri have any direct relation to that other Japanophile on YouTube, Meggibon or Magibon or whomever? At least there's competition out there now for her. :p
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Rabbit-Full Featured By Owner Oct 17, 2010  Hobbyist
Totally and utterly agree with you. She NEEDS to hear these words of wisdom.
How is this at ALL a insult? If she just took the gist of your words to heart, she would look SO much better
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Toru11 Featured By Owner Oct 14, 2010
I don't think you were being very nice at all.
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Chiikarato Featured By Owner Oct 14, 2010
well a lot of people disagree with you as do I.
Yes it was blunt but it was honest, I didn't call her ugly/hambeast or any of the other nasty names other people call her; I told her the truth but in the nicest way possible and I complimented her a lot. I gave her helpful advice on how to improve without being rude and the only recognition i received was a hidden comment; she has the time to comment on the people who are horrible to her and who kiss her ass so why not one of the people who actually would like to see her excel but with some improvement?

May I ask why you thought I wasn't being nice?
Is it because I didn't sugarcoat and tell her how perfect/wonderful/flawless she is?
Is it simply because of my connection with 4chan?
Or is it simply because you are a PT fan?

I'm honestly intrigued as you are the first person to disagree
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Seraphically Featured By Owner Oct 16, 2010
He is a troll.
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Chiikarato Featured By Owner Oct 17, 2010
:/
I can be pretty slow at times and need a huge neon sign flashing "TROLL" :/
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Seraphically Featured By Owner Oct 17, 2010
Just look at his page, he's a "bishy japanese boy", so he can trick weeaboos into thinking he's cool. Those photos are likely stolen. He also stalks everyone that's been a major target on /cgl/. ADF and PT included.
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Chiikarato Featured By Owner Oct 17, 2010
aah thanks for the tips :)

I guess I try to not think of everyone as a troll so often that i miss the actual troll :/
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Toru11 Featured By Owner Oct 16, 2010
none of those reasons. you did give good advice but at the same you are telling her she cant do something just because the way she looks? that is like saying a African American cosplayer shouldn't cosplay as a Japanese character, no? They should just stick to what they look good in
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Chiikarato Featured By Owner Oct 17, 2010
there's a huge difference between cosplaying as a character of a different race (which i have no problem with as why shouldn't someone cosplay because of their skin? they can still look damn good) and telling someone they should find a more suitable fashion that will make them look good and reduce the number of people making fun of them.

It's the same as chubby girls cosplaying Yoko; kudos to them for having confidence but there so many other costumes/outfits they could have chosen that would have made them look wonderful.

I never said she couldn't do it either :/ It's up to her to listen (and as usual, she didn't even give someone trying to be nice the time of day) but she's 25/26 and needs to grow up a little.
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Toru11 Featured By Owner Oct 17, 2010
you pretty much told her she shouldnt do those things...and why not? also african americans get made of a lot for cosplaying as japanese characters..at least they do here in japan.
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Chiikarato Featured By Owner Oct 18, 2010
Give up love.
Chances are you aren't the azn bish you make out to be but are PT herself
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Toru11 Featured By Owner Oct 18, 2010
lol what? why would you think that?
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MiaTheBadger Featured By Owner Oct 14, 2010  Hobbyist Traditional Artist
It could've been a lot meaner message too. World is not entirely sunshine, cotton candy and rainbows, and Chiikarato's message is nicer than many others might be.
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Toru11 Featured By Owner Oct 16, 2010
I'm not sure why people NEED to give her these message's at all. I don't get why people are so affected by her.
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Seraphically Featured By Owner Oct 16, 2010
While I know you're a troll, this message is illogical. This is an art site, one where the biggest purpose of it is to receive critique. If you leave a forum open in order to receive critique on a site made for art, then one will receive that critique.

If she didn't want it, she wouldn't have posted her photos at all on a place where people are free to comment and leave their opinion.

The message posted above was honest and thorough and looked for PT's best interests in mind.
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Toru11 Featured By Owner Oct 17, 2010
what is a troll? and this is true. people need to be open for critiquing, and learn to handle them. But it seems that she took this comment as an offense more then a critique.
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Seraphically Featured By Owner Oct 17, 2010
You're cute, but not a very good troll (if by some magical reason you actually don't know, google is your friend). But since you easily fool people like PT and ADF and other weeaboos, I can see it sliding.

Anyway. Pixy posts on an artsite and gets mad when people critique her outfits. If she didn't want people to comment, she wouldn't have posted. Thus, she brings all of this upon herself.
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Toru11 Featured By Owner Oct 18, 2010
I looked up troll on google and this is what i got [link]

fooling? I don't understand. She doesn't get mad when people critique her outfits. she gets mad because people ridicule her. And for what?
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Seraphically Featured By Owner Oct 19, 2010
You must be reading someone else's comments, because she sure as hell gets mad at anyone who critiques her outfit choices.
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MiaTheBadger Featured By Owner Oct 13, 2010  Hobbyist Traditional Artist
Woah. I stumbled upon her page today and then found this.
And I have to admit, I agree with you 100% on the matter - you managed to write all the words I had thought up, while looking at some of the pictures in her gallery. I am not even an expert on the style she has in the pics (lolita, etc), but I still sure know what looks good and what does not.

It is sad that she takes your words as an insult and hating and everything negative, but there really is not harder and sharper thing than the truth.
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Chiikarato Featured By Owner Oct 14, 2010
oh wow it's great to have an outsiders viewpoint (and support) :)
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This is the kindest thing somebody has said her in a long time. Yeah, it's not sugar coated but still it's the truth with out being overly mean or nasty about it. I really wish she would listen because she's a fairly pretty girl. I remember the pic of her with red hair and a white dress. She looked very nice and mature.

I do agree she'd look better in Classic Lolita because she has an older looking face. I believe that the Sweet Lolita and teen fashions she tries to pull of make her look much older than what she is and tend to bring out her flaws more so because the fashions are meant for younger or younger looking people.

It's sad that she completely ignored your advice. Thing is even if she changes now, the damage has been done. She's ruined any career she could have hoped to achieve by putting herself out there, in such a way that it projects her as an immature and irresponsible individual who is incapable of being an adult. And, this isn't including the nudes.

I think what makes it worse isn't the constant mean comments from 4chan or dA, but the ass kissing comments from her "fans". They kept saying she's "perfect" or "sexy" or "looks totally cute" in outfits that just don't look so good. It's given her a sense of being perfect and big headed which has feed her delusions of being "hot, thin, and toned".

Still I applaud you for trying to help. You said something that needed to be said a long time ago.
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Chiikarato Featured By Owner Oct 12, 2010
thank you so much :)
And yeah it is a shame but at the end of the day, it's her loss and she's the one who'll suffer when eventually the fans find someone else to drool over and give false praise :/
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MutsukoChan Featured By Owner Oct 9, 2010   Digital Artist
I think the reason why she takes offense, is because she doesn't ask for it. But then again if you are posting Bikini pictures of yourself up.. You are kind of asking for it. It's a double sided blade. She's not asking for critique, but then again, if you put your nudes & yourself out there. You can't expect to not get unwanted attention. But nice explanation, it's not you being rude or attacking her. Just kind of a reality check. Because I too am getting tired of seeing this girls nudes on /cgl/ or /b/ every damn day.

P.s
She's 25?... I mean she looks older.. But, wow.
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Chiikarato Featured By Owner Oct 10, 2010
I know :O Worst thing is....she thinks she looks 16-18 :iconfacepalmplz:


Yeah I know she's not asking for critique but people will always give it to you regardless, especially on a place such as dA which is a community mostly based on hobbies that strive on concrit to help people improve.

To be fair to her, she didn't put her nudes out there in the first place so you can't really blame her for that (bitter ex boyfriend) but I get where you're coming from; I miss the days of Talia_Speaks and Miyu drama now and I never thought i'd ever say that :/
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Robotaka Featured By Owner May 12, 2011
Someone actually dated that thing... er, I mean her?
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Katathm Featured By Owner Oct 9, 2010
I couldn't have said it better, no really I couldn't have. I'm kind of surprised she hid the comment you made because it wasn't like the ones I've seen on /cgl/ and randomly pop up on her page that are completely rude and filled with unneeded swearing and such. I was hoping she'd answer to see what she said. It's kind of sad on her part that she hid that because of the fact that it makes her look, even more so then she already does, like she can't take criticism of any kind...even when it's like this and it's constructive. I hope she sees this and finally gives you a response.
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Chiikarato Featured By Owner Oct 9, 2010
thanks :)
I really did mean it all constructively; I have no reason to attack her and I do not hate her as I do not know her.
But when you see someone over and over again being posted, you start to take notice and for once, I agree with the majority of the negative comments she gets.
I do not agree with the cheeky/rude ones but the ones trying to critique her, whilst they sometimes look like bullying, they are the truth but just not sugarcoated.

I completely disagree with such actions as sending pizza to her house, sending nude pictures to her mother (an innocent party) and other such things but the girl is just so stubborn :/

It's her own loss if she doesn't heed any advice; at the end of the day, you never hear her speak about her friends so clearly she is a very lonely individual and I think that one day, she'll wake up and realise that because of how she acts, she's pretty much alone in the world because dA fans can't give you a real life hug when you're down, can't take you out to cheer you up and never have that closeness real friends do.

<3
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Katathm Featured By Owner Oct 9, 2010
I know what you mean. I know she doesn't like the negative feedback, what person does really? But to go and hide every negative, or what she thinks is negative, comment is just meh. Like I've been to her page once and she could look good if she actually thought about her outfits more then she does. I'm pretty sure that if she actually got cosplays or lolita dresses that complimented her figure instead of the bikini's and to small dresses that there wouldn't be such a fuss about her. That's just my opinion on it.

Like you said, it is her own fault for not listening to people like you who have given her actually good advice as opposed to spamming her page/inbox with rude things. I also agree with the fact that she's probably lonely, dA watchers can't, as you said, give you a hug if you're feeling down or pat you on the back and be like "hey man, great job". I actually feel more bad for her then anything because not only is this drama surrounding her but it doesn't really seem like she has anyone that's a real friend.
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Chiikarato Featured By Owner Oct 10, 2010
I do have a lot of sympathy for her; I mean I would love her confidence but if gaining it meant becoming delusional,obnoxious and detached from reality, I'll stick with my insecurities kthnx.

She clearly knows how to coordinate, just not for herself. She could be such a wonderful Lolita if she found a style to suit her. Not just because of her age, but because of her build, I think she could be a wonderful Classic Loli :)

Maybe one day we'll see results but by that point, I think her 15 minutes of infamy will have passed and noone will care if she has changed; the 'old' her would be engraved in everyones minds anyway
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